31 Days to a Happier Life - Day 4

I'm kinda impressed that I have make it to Day 4 (a little late, but I made it none-the-less)! Woot!! Okay, a little bit premature, I guess, for any celebration. Or not!!

By celebrating small victories we boost our confidence to be able to tackle the bigger challenges.

I have finally finished painting my closet. My hands are barely functioning. My back is permanently bent. I'm so tired (I also have two sick kids, and an anxiety-ridden husband, but that's all for a different post) but I did it! And it looks AWESOME!

Next up is the floor, then the dreaded clothing declutter, aka dump, aka less stuff more quality, aka get-it-out-of-the-bedroom!! I am not good at decluttering my closet - too sentimental. I'm okay at getting rid of the items I don't wear, outdated stuff, etc, but then my closet is full of sentimental items that I never wear but cannot get rid of! And I still have nothing to wear!!! So I need a better solution - a smarter storage answer for this dilemma. I also want more room in my closet so it doesn't look like I have crammed everything-and-my-grandma in there. I want it where you can go in there and breathe and relax AND find something to wear. Sounds doable, right? It.is.just.a.closet. OK :) I can breathe now.

Closet Makeover Before and After

So when I am in the middle of a project like this everything else pretty much flies out the proverbial mind window. I'm so lucky I remembered to put something out for dinner this morning, otherwise it would have been toast for us. And by toast, I mean actual toast! So how can I control my head, my days, my house and my life? With LISTS!

We have already established our long-term and short-term goal lists, now we need to implement them and all our everyday chores into a Daily Goal List. At the beginning of the week print out 5, or 7 pages and keep them all together. Each night you will write out your list for the next day - listing three daily goals - the main important things you need to accomplish that next day. Get a clipboard, hang it up where it is easy to see and access. Refer to it all day, everyday.

Being organized and not missing anything makes me happy!

P.S. I'm going to try to figure out a good program to use to do a Daily Goal Schedule printable - this may take me awhile!! Or I may just freehand it and scan it in...mmmm...stay tuned :)

 
Solutions - great tips for closet storage solutions.

Art - I'm so excited - I ordered this beautiful print for my closet.

Goal Chart - found this lovely goal chart/daily planner - worth starting with until I figure out my perfect solution.

31 Days to a Happier Life - Day 2

True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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"True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery

The basis of happiness is security, contentment with your surroundings and what is happening in your world, the feeling of peace - with little stress to upset your "level". Stability, a solid foundation, a good support network, love from family and friends, and a sense of confidence all contribute to the happiness factor. If you have all these needs met you should be the happiest person alive, right? Maybe not! Happiness is also the result of how you handle the situation, or how you pursue your life.

"Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions."
- Dalai Lama

Some people are half-full and some are half-empty kind of people. Can you change this? Somewhat, depending how determined you are. 50% of your happiness level is pre-determined, genetic, just how you are made to be. And that is OK! That is the way God made you. You are unique and special and loved by Him regardless. But if you want to get a little more happiness you can! The other 50% is how you handle it, what you do, how you react, what you determine your outcome to be.

"Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be."
Abraham Lincoln

So I'm determined to add to my happiness cup. I'm typically an optimistic person, half-cup-full, get-the-job-done, tough-it-out, greet-you-with-a-smile kind of person, but sometimes that reservoir gets depleted, and taxed too low to function properly. 

So with my every-expanding Happiness List I also need to add in Goal Settings.

Goal Settings

1. Short Terms Goals

2 Long Term Goals

Some items on my Happiness List belong on my short term goal list, and others on the long term goal list. I'm pretty sure traveling to Italy will make me very happy, but it is (at present) a long term goal. Putting a little money aside each week or month towards my long term goal of being happy in Italy will definitely help me achieve this goal, and make me happy each time I contribute to something that I have to look forward to in my future. But I need my lists so I can focus my energy in the right areas, towards the right goals, in order to achieve the level of happiness I'm looking for. Make sense?

So here is my goal for today - break up my Happiness List into sections (Personal Goals, Family Goals, Dream Goals, etc) and assign each item to long term or short term , so now I will have a plan for my future, starting tomorrow. SO FREAKIN' EXCITING!!!

Set up short terms and long terms in terms of weeks, months, years. I have always heard it is good to have a 6 month plan, and a 5 year plan, and a whole bunch of plans in between. There are just some things that need 5 years (like saving money for a deposit for a house, or your dream vacation). And some can be achieved in a week (like painting my nails). These plans will be fluid. Nothing is set in stone. But it will definitely help you focus and give you hope for next week, and for the next decade. And hope contributes to happiness :)

So assignments have been set - get lists organized and plans set into action!